Long-Term Couples Can Have Great Sex Lives

    Despite the cultural belief that sexual excitement dies off after the initial phase of a relationship passes, long-term partners can sustain exciting and gratifying sex lives over the course of their relationship.  Research has demonstrated that couples who manage to maintain sexual excitement over the long-term have a number of variable in common.…

Now that we’re married can we go back to being queer?

“Marriage is a wonderful institution, but who wants to live in an institution.” Groucho Marx Of course LGBT people should be able to get married. Of course we should be treated equally under the law. And of course, the dismantling of institutionalized homophobia within our government can only lead to less condoning of personal and…

To Gay Scouts: Just Don’t Grow-up to Be Gay

This week, among a string of gay bashing incidents in New York City, Mark Carson was shot in the face and murdered for no reason other than senseless and vile homophobia. Today the Boy Scouts of America ended their ban on admitting gay youth members but retained the banishment of gay leaders, and in social…